How to Safely Introduce Children to Dogs and Other Pets

Having a pet can be a great learning experience for children. Caring for an animal teaches them responsibility, empathy and compassion. However, pets can also pose some risks, especially for very young children – and also vulnerable pets. By taking the right precautions, you can ensure your child safely bonds with their new furry friend and no pet is hurt.

Choosing the Right Pet

Here are some guidelines on age-appropriate pets.

Babies and Toddlers (0-3 years)

The most appropriate pets for infants and toddlers are ones that require minimal hands-on interaction. Fish are great starter pets to keep toddlers engaged. Just be sure to keep aquariums and containers out of reach. Avoid mammals like hamsters and guinea pigs, as these small pets can bite or scratch if they are mishandled.

Pre-Schoolers (3-5 years)

At this age, children can help with simple feeding and play, but still lack the coordination for more complex care. Build responsibility with low maintenance pets like fish, rats or guinea pigs. Make sure terrariums and cages are secure and allow pre-schoolers to interact only under close supervision.

Younger Children (5-10 years)

Now children are ready for more interactive pets like rabbits, lizards or birds. Make sure they wash their hands before and after handling these pets to prevent germ transfer. Supervise initial introductions and teach gentle stroking, giving space and avoiding disturbing nesting areas.

Pre-Teens (10-12 years)

Pre-teens often desire larger pets like cats or dogs. Select friendly breeds known for tolerating handling like ragdoll cats or labrador dogs. Demonstrate walking, grooming and feeding before letting your child take on these tasks alone. Remind them to never disturb sleeping, eating or nursing animals.

Teenagers (13+ years)

Teens are ready for increased responsibility and can assist with training more challenging breeds when parents permit it. Consult breed experts to match your teen with pets suitable for first-time owners. Make sure they understand proper pet etiquette before letting them handle animals unsupervised.

Preparing for a New Dog

Dogs require the most preparation as they can easily knock over and unintentionally hurt small children. Dog-proof your home by keeping toys off the floor and securing any cables. Install baby gates to keep dogs separated from kids in high traffic areas.

Prior to bringing a dog home, teach your child how to safely interact. Show them to pet gently, avoid faces and never disturb a resting or eating dog. Demonstrate positive reinforcement training so they can help with basic commands. Monitor all interactions until your child reliably shows good behaviour.

Introducing Pets Slowly

When bringing home any new pet, take introductions slowly over several weeks. Keep the pet confined to a private room or crate at first so they feel secure with limited interaction. Supervise short, structured play sessions to get the child and pet used to each other.

If you are fostering with an agency like Active Care Solutions, be aware that some children are allergic to pets or scared of certain animals. Be mindful of this and consider a pet without fur or feathers, such as tropical fish or a bearded dragon.

Gradually increase freedom as they build a bond. Continue to separate children and pets during mealtimes, play dates or when left unsupervised. Reinforce gentle handling and set clear boundaries on where pets are allowed. With patience and proper precautions, children and pets can develop wonderful relationships.